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Almost Back!

Oh blogging, how I missed you!

After being away from blogging for two entire months, I found that I truly enjoy writing and could not wait to get back! Now I think the original one year commitment of blogging could easily be accomplished.

Blogging

During the two months of absence, I have kept a running list of topics to cover, such as half-marathon training (completed it in 2hrs 5 minutes and 20 seconds!), how blogging has impacted me, having small talks, etc. What’s more, I am in the midst of writing “Networking Hack #2” and will publish it next Sunday!

Complete off-topic – if you are looking for movies to watch, I highly recommend “the Big Short”. It is adapted from the same titled book of Michael Lewis, author of the Blind Side, Moneyball, and Liar’s Poker. Apart from the dazzling cast which includes Christian Bale, Steve Carrell, Ryan Gosling, and Brad Pitt, what makes the movie stands out is that it explains in simplest terms all the complicated finance concepts related to the housing bubble burst and is super comical.

Check back next Sunday!

New Look for the Blog and Holiday Break

I am excited to share that I have officially registered the domain of my blog! You could now put down “sijieand500words.com” to locate my site. What’s more, I have upgraded the site to the premium plan so that it has a cleaner view with open sans typeface, gets rid of irrelevant ads, and enables the subscription function (on the upper right corner for desktop and at the bottom for mobile views). I not only love the new look, but also believe it will give my readers easy access to the website and improved reading experience.

With the holidays coming, I am going to be on a writing break. As much as I love writing, producing a piece in clear logic and precise words does take up lots of time, most of which I spent locked up at home. In the holiday season, I would rather spend more time with friends and focus on other priorities, such as training for my first half marathon, which will take place on January 17th, 2016. Unfortunately, I overtrained in early November and had some IT band pain. The recovery has put me behind on training schedule by a couple of weeks. With the goal of finishing the race under two hours, I need to put in more effort while avoiding further injuries.

Though I won’t be updating the blog every other Sunday, there is still a chance of me publishing in the next couple of months. Remember to check back for updates! In the meantime, feel free to check out some of the blogs I follow:

Phil’s Career Blog – http://www.phils-career-blog.com/

Written by my college professor, who is an ex-consultant/corporate strategist passionate about teaching and mentoring, the blog focuses on career management and business thinking. The “Career” section includes pieces on Interviewing and Networking that are must-read.

If you are a young professional, Phil gave a great podcast this year to the University alumni community on managing the one’s career after college – It’s Not Just Luck: Increasing Your Odds for Early Career Success. I cannot recommend it enough.

James Clear – http://jamesclear.com/

The blog centers on habit formation and performance improvement. It is under his influence that I decided to write more to form a habit. It is also due to his article that I set my mind to prioritize writing. To be honest, I cannot keep up with his publishing frequency. However, it matters more to internalize and practice the learning than to count the number of articles one reads. Thus, when I do read, I usually try to apply the takeaways.

Ellen Chisa – http://www.ellenchisa.com/writing/

I recently stumbled upon her blog via her article “Have Some Coffee”, the points of which I can’t agree more with. She beat me to it in sharing tips on “stay in touch” and “return the favor”. I am planning to cover them in “Networking Hack #2”, so I will make sure my post has more examples, whenever I get a chance to finish it!!

I will resume the normal writing schedule in late January, hopefully with good news to share on the half marathon!

Until next time,

Charlie Brown

 

Networking Hack #1 – Make it Easy for Others to Help You

Have you sent lots of networking emails but gained little traction?

Have you set up networking meetings that ended with no job prospects?

Sometimes feeling like the resume guy in the cartoon?

Unfocused Networking

Chances are you are not doing it right. To have high request response rate and productive networking meetings, think of ways that are convenient for others to help you. First, you must know what you want to achieve from the meeting, then incorporate the purpose in the introduction email, and lastly follow up with easy to execute plans. All these ideas are drawn from my personal experience of being on both sides and lessons passed down from the wise.

Network with a clear purpose

Networking meeting should always start with a purpose, which will help you narrow down what information you are seeking and who to talk to. A networking meeting without a well-thought-out purpose is a waste of time for both parties. Moreover, it is quite likely that the connection won’t even accept the request in the first place since he/she might be wondering “why me?” Thus, you should never network just to check the box. Instead, take the opportunity to explore topics such as “Does the company has the roles that fit my background and career aspirations”, “Does the team has the right culture that aligns with my personality”, etc. Further, networking does not need to be limited to job searching. You could also learn from those with intriguing career paths and get mentored.

Once you determine what questions to ask, set up meetings with those that could give you the answers. Linkedin is usually a great resource to research and gauge if one is the right connection. Relevance of one’s background to your networking purpose always matters more than the title he/she holds. No matter what decision-making power he/she has, if you are a strong candidate for a job, eventually your resume will be passed onto the hiring manager. It happens a lot in my office that if there is an opening on the team, the hiring manager will ask everyone if they know any good candidate. What’s more, you could always start with the junior analysts to “knock out the basics” and then to move up to people at the senior level to understand the team culture and strategy.

Articulate the purpose in the introduction email

With the purpose in mind, you narrow down the list of connections. Now it is time to set up a meeting. However, in the initial email, sometimes networkers fail to explain clearly how the request relates to the connection. I have outlined two requests that I encountered and my initial reactions. I have abbreviated the emails and kept them anonymous.

Case A

Email: “…. I am an international student looking for advice…”

Reaction: What particular areas of advice are you looking for? Academic? Adapting to the US culture? Job search? Leadership? What’s more, even under each area, there are multiple subtopics. For example, under job search, stand-alone topics could include networking, getting interview invites and interviewing. When the topic is too general, I will be at a loss about where to start and uncertain about how much time commitment the meeting is going to be.

Case B

Email: “… I am looking to move to Houston to start my career in finance. I am wondering if you have any advice or know anyone I should reach out to as I begin my application process…”

 Reaction: This should be a direct request for an informational interview, where I could learn more about your background. You could tell me what finance jobs are of interest and what companies you have looked into in Houston. What’s more, I am more likely to introduce you to my connections once I get to know you beyond the email.

Knowing that I could have high expectations, I nevertheless responded to both emails. However, there is room for improvement to eliminate any potential questions from the connection.

Propose specific actions in the follow-up email 

After the networking meeting, if you are interested in potential employment, propose ways that the connection could easily take part in. I have outlined a couple of actions and their enhanced versions.

Scenarios Actions Further Improvement
Available job posting of interest Tell the connection you have applied Email the connection a job description with your resume so he/she could forward directly to hiring managers
No job posting of interest at the moment Thank you email to show appreciation Commit to check back with the connection later, specify what types of position you are interested in and include the resume, in case he/she could forward your resume to other companies that are hiring

Overall, you should bear in mind the goal of minimizing the amount of work your connection needs to do.

We could all agree that people are more likely to act upon something if the undertaking is easy with clear directions. Our connections have competing priorities in life that they could easily say no to the meetings, since they don’t have any obligation to volunteer their time. Invest time and efforts in making it easier for others to help, such as knowing what you want to gain from the meeting and writing clear introduction and follow-up emails. In that way, you are more likely to get what you want.

Bonus – if you could read Chinese, below is a great article that inspires me to write this post. Although some points are overlapping, I try to make my examples as relevant as possible to college recruiting. I believe it is through concrete examples that one really learn to practice the ideas. http://www.dennythecow.com/?p=411

P.S. I will try to get back to my publishing consistency of every other Sunday evening. If you don’t want to miss a post in case I am behind schedule, be sure to sign up for notification via email. In “Hack #2” post, I will share my ideas of “giving” in the networking dynamic. Stay tuned!

Be a Little More Intentional

A while ago, I read an episode of the Q&A column “Ask Ariely” by Dan Ariely, the author of “Predictably Irrational”. In that episode, the reader asked Dan why she didn’t have the same excitement going through her 20s compared to going through her childhood.  Dan responded that the perspectives changed – she didn’t look at the world with the fresh and curious mind of a child and daily life fell into a routine that probably no longer excited her. Since I just turned one year older, looking back at the past year, I had memorable moments such as training diligently and finishing a race with new PR, hosting friends from out of town, reuniting with old friends at a wedding in Minnesota, trying Airbnb for the first time, etc, but I also spent hours watching TV just to kill time, aimlessly scrolling down facebook new feeds, staying late in the office when productivity bottomed out, etc. Thus, in this coming year, I want to be a little more intentional with how I spend my time, so that same time next year, I would be happier reflecting “where the times goes”.

Inspired by the blog post of a friend, I have developed a list of 12 things I want to do before I turn another year older (not as ambitious 🙂 ). I have taken some ideas from her list as well (Thank you, Lisa!). Some of them are one-time events that I want to try, while the others are habits that I want to develop. I come up with the list with two deliberations: 1) it is not a check list, but more a list of goals and dreams that I want to strive for. I wouldn’t punish myself for not accomplishing everything, because things could happen unexpectedly that leads to a change of priorities. 2) some items are set with a reasonable stretch goal that could be achieved with invested time and efforts.

  1. Finish the Aramco Half Marathon under 2 hours

I finished the 10K this year averaging 8:42/mile. Since I am running more than double the distance, a little over 9:00/mile is going to be challenging.

  1. Update the blog every other Sunday for one year

This one year project made me realize how much I enjoy writing. I start to worry less about what others will think of the writing, but focus more that I find joy in words.

  1. Visit the Pacific Northwest and hit some trails

I had a blast hiking in Big Bend earlier this year. The long and somewhat strenuous hike took my mind off the daily hustle and bustle and directed the attention to the surrounding nature, my breathing, and how my body felt physically, which I relished. After reading the book “Wild” (not the best book in my opinion), I developed a fascination with the Pacific Crest Trail. Thus, I am hoping for an adventure in Portland, another stay in Seattle (kicking myself for not visiting Mt Rainier or Olympic National Park last time), and some trails in between.

  1. Write about six books I read in the blog.

With everything going on (work, blog, training, etc), it is reasonable to set the expectation of reading a book every other month.

  1. Explore a couple of new places in Houston every month and write something similar to the post on Minnesota a year from now.

Be it the Menil Collection, a coffee shop, or a biking trail, I am sure Houston has lots for me to discover.

  1. Do a better job of staying in touch with friends around the world

After moving to Houston last July, I find myself owing several friends Skype calls to catch up. Though cities or countries apart, I still want to show that I care about the friendships. I hope I could find time to visit or travel together with a few. Otherwise, postcards, birthday cards, X’mas cards, we will become best friends!  The good thing is that I love writing notes. 🙂

  1. Sign up for CitySolve

I wanted to participate in Challenge Nation to celebrate my birthday this year, but failed to due to scheduling conflicts and working over the weekend.

  1. Host a dinner party or partake in some fancy dining with friends

Yes, it is a very grown-up thing to do.

  1. Run a destination race with a scenic route

Hopefully with a new PR than Aramco Half!

  1. Talk to one stranger each day

What exchanges qualify and what not are hard to define, but the purpose is to work on my social muscle.

  1. Reflect every evening and journal the highlight of each day in a couple of sentences

Speaking of living a more intentional life, daily reflection helps.

  1. Do a better job at managing personal finances

I got advice that it’s never too late to start savings for retirement.

Accomplishing all twelve items in this coming year is no easy task. But I know that if I don’t set dreams and goals, I won’t be going anywhere. No matter how many items I will achieve next year, I will be content that I have tried.

Intention